Blogmas Day 1+ Dealing With Bullies


 

 

Hello everyone, and welcome to Blogmas day 1! I’m excited to start this festive journey with you all.Before I start I want to make sure everyone is feeling great this holiday season, I know how hard this time of year can be. I have so much to talk about, and of course I get to do it everyday until Christmas. Things are so different for me now, things have been changing in the last week or so. I’m happy though, and to be honest I’ve been happy for a bit now. I’m starting to move forward with my family and make the steps to get over the robbery. I’m opening up my heart to forgive, which surprisingly comes easy for me.

I’ve been made fun of, called ugly, mocked, and just completely treated unfairly in the past and even now. But guess what? We’re not doing anything wrong. Sometimes when people have insecurities they will try to put those off on you. Bullies are victims, too. I know it may be hard to see them in that light but they’re broken on the inside. Anyone that has to bully someone else has a story they’re frustrated with.

However, this does not give anyone the right to make you feel unsafe, unhappy, or anything negative. All you really can do is hope they seek help for the way they are. This could be them having a self discovery or seeking professional help. I do believe that people can change if they want to.

Do me a favor? If you’re being bullied by mean girls or anyone, look in the mirror and say this, “I’ll get through this, nothing lasts forever.”

Nothing lasts forever, I promise it’ll get better. You’re a lot stronger than you give yourself credit for. You’re also not alone, you have your real life family regardless if they’re biological. You also have me and the whole S.A. the Writer family. We are a family, and we stick together. If you ever need to talk I’m only an email away.

You’ll be okay, I promise.  No one in this world can break you.

Let’s start this holiday season with a great start.

My Email: thewritersa@gmail.com

Extremely Helpful Resources if you want to talk to someone other than me:

Crisis Call Center
800-273-8255 or text ANSWER to 839863
Twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week
http://crisiscallcenter.org/crisisservices.html

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
800-273-TALK (8255)
Twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week
http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org

Depression and Bipolar Support
800-273-TALK (8255)
Twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week
http://www.dbsalliance.org

National Eating Disorders Association
800-931-2237
9 a.m. to 5 p.m. EST, Monday to Friday
http://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org

National Mental Health Association Hotline
800-273-TALK (8255)
Twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week
http://www.nmha.org

National Domestic Violence Hotline
800-799-SAFE (7233)
Twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week
http://www.ndvh.org

Planned Parenthood National Hotline
800-230-PLAN (7526) – for routing to local resources
Twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week
http://www.plannedparenthood.org

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