Breakups can you really screw you up. But to balance that out they help you grow and learn. I’m learning a lot right now, for instance not every guy is out to get me. Not every guy is plotting a complicated lie to tell me. Some guys are completely honest, and instead of having you play guessing games they just tell you what you want to know.
I met someone , a guy. Before meeting him I didn’t even realize how twisted my idea of trust was. I always catch myself trying to figure out which lie will be told next. It’s stressful and makes me sick. I believe you should always keep a slight distance but you should also have a good amount of trust.
We’re only friends, and for right now I like it that way. There’s no pressure, no confusion, just two people who like each other. He’s really nice and really funny, and so far a good friend. Maybe it won’t work out with him, or maybe it will, I don’t know. All I know is that to move on and be a healthy individual I’m gonna have to trust people more and not always think of the worst.